WE ARE PASSENGERS.

      

     Hello there ! What's up ? What's up ? How are you doing ? 😂

     Before I begin, I'd like to really apologise for being so inconsistent. Likeeee I am so so so sorry please🙏.
Thank you.

     Oh well, for those who really care to know how I've been, (if they really did, they would have known somehow somehow but it's fine. Who my well being help 😕 ?) I have just been here like that. This past week has been too busy and 😭 I don't even know but I need a break from everything so bad 😭 which is one of the reasons why I left WhatsApp and it has been so hard but then, I've realised a few things in the past days.

     Today's post was inspired by a sermon I was fortunate to pay attention to at this wedding I attended today because big time, it touched my life and once again, Happy Married Life Celina ❤.

Ehn she didn't marry herself but I was not able to take a picture of the couple and please forgive how the picture looks 😔. I should get a new phone in January next year by God's grace.

     So yeah, straight to today's topic - We Are Passengers -
If you follow my posts steady, you'd realise I suck at giving titles but this particular one is an extract of an example the Reverend gave today.

     "WE ARE PASSENGERS" sounds familiar to me but I can't seem to remember the context in which it is being used but this particular one today has to do with us the children. Yes, US.
                   Wondering how ?

      I was equally lost when he made mention but in further explanation, he said all he is trying to say is that our current family now i.e having the kids live with their parents is just for a while as it can be related to being PASSENGERS on a bus and at some point, we would get down which will have just the parents living alone once again.

     Now you might be thinking if this really has to do with we the children and yes, it does.

     Well, he didn't say anything to the kids really as he was referring to the couple but somehow, I was able to get something out of that which I'm sure you are able to sort of understand now.

     As children, we often times have no respect for our parents when it comes to certain things which I feel is so bad because even when we feel we can make certain decisions for ourselves, we still need their advice or maybe their opinion too so things can really work but then I had this lecturer who will say "PERSONAL experience is the best teacher" which is so true 😂😂😂😂😂.

     So yeah, being that we are on a bus as passengers, we are to pay undivided attention to the conductor (our parents) very well so that we don't get misled kind of and end up at the wrong place because at some point, our parents were passengers too but if they failed to obey their parents or to be submissive as children, they would have missed a whole lot.

    Sigh, I'm glad you finally understood 😁.

     Without saying much anymore as this is probably a whole lot already, all I am trying to say that in life, we really have to listen so well to our parents, the teachings they give and be sure to learn a thing or two because most people are taught thoroughly but they find it so hard to learn. In so doing, we can pass unto the younger ones for when we will be conductors too and have to train our own children ☺.

     I'd like to know in the comments section if there is/are any regrets you have as a result of not listening to your parents 😂 and till when next I am able to post again, hopefully Saturday next week, be good ❤.

     But wait please before you leave, I'd just like to say that Hausas (tradition wise) are too awesome. Like it's just away from the regular that we do and are used to so 👏.

The picture I'm about to share now has no business with this post but the whole parade thing makes me go crazy and I just feel like sharing with you guys.

Don't forget to drop a comment, thank you ❤. 

REJECTION IS A REDIRECTION.

Hey there !
     Thank you for taking your time to read through and I hope you like it.

Everyone has been rejected at some point but being rejected doesn't fully define us or does it ?

     The main reason why people get rejected is just about choices but someone's thought about you or inability to see what's inside of you doesn't determine who you actually are. It's either you keep trying to improve your self or you just need to switch up to another person or another level or likewise that level doesn't befit you enough.

     The saddest news nowadays is that when people get rejected at something, they tend to leave immediately. They don't look back but trust me it's not as easy as it seems, being rejected is a very painful thing but I tell you what, when you are rejected there is something, a nicer thing coming your way.

     Patience is the next key after rejection, never try to stop exploring you might find a better thing or lucky for you you might find the best in yourself.

Everything takes time and some times we get rejected by people who don't want you or some group of people then lucky for you you might find out that you are better alone than to be with people who don't need you or otherwise you might find a group of people who will make you explore more than you could ever imagine.

     A saying goes thus:

When rejected at some point and you know you seriously worked hard for it, just know it isn't really meant for you. Try something new relating to the the previous thing you wanted to do and trust God it will be good.

I want to tell a quick relatable story that was made in a dialogue format to make it interesting yunno 😌.

Blessing: No, no. Stop saying that, Ayo. Things will get better.

Ayo: Eyys aunty, hold it. The both of us know how I took part in the 3 days fasting last week just in anticipation of good news this week but arriving the university, Bayo told me not to stress because of all the lists posted, my name isn't there. We both know how I don't joke with food and ...

Blessing: Just chill.

Ayo: Blessing pleaseeeee let me finish. Now, that good for nothing girl that graduated school just three months ago is making plans to shop and do all that because she gained admission and if I'm not missing counts Blessing, this is my fourth. Hehe, my fourth year trying ooo and still not a success. My mom called me two days ago and said she will stop sending me money because she's tired and I can understand.

Blessing !!! What will your friend do oo ?

And funny enough it's not like school brings money these days oo. I'm just trying to get an admission so that people around can respect me and stuff but this chain my village people are using get as e be.


Blessing: Hmm babe, all will be well okay ? Just chill and keep trying. I believe God is up to something on this your matter. Ayo Ayo, my future lawyer with the bad ass shape.

Ayo: *laughs* Okay o, thank you sha. Can you please help me with that paper you found that has the numbers of our classmates ? Let me see if I can get through to anyone as I am bored like this.

          *On the phone with Sharon*

Ayo: Hellooooooooo. *laughs*

Sharon: Hey there, who am I speaking with please ?

Ayo: It's me Adebowale Ayomide from MDSS.

Sharon: What ?! Ayo ? Omg I feel like slapping you. After saying you won't lose your number yen yen yen...

Ayo: *laughs* Omo my phone got stolen oo then the new one I got came with a free sim. I have missed you so much dear. What has been happening with you ?

Sharon: Hmm baby girl, I gained admission that same year we graduated secondary school to study Accounting and I will be done in 2 months. How about you my dear ? I was low key wishing we could exchange results at that time *laughs*. But then you read a whole lot so yeah, you deserved it.

Ayo: Actually Sharon, I'm yet to gain admission babe and I returned few hours ago from where I went to check my name on the admission list and my name still didn't come out despite my efforts. Please let's not talk about it because I'm over the news already and trying to be positive.

Sharon: What ?! Oh damn ! Wait a minute. Do you still want to model ? I remember how you used to be mad over it.

Ayo: Of course, I am but I lack connections so.

Sharon: OMG ... Ayo ! My aunt works with this agency and they're in need of a model for a shoot in L.A next month. Are you down for it ?

Ayo: Hey hey, this bad better not be one of your crazy ass pranks; I'll slaughter you.

Sharon: Damn, you know what ? I'll text you my aunt's number now.

                                  ***

     In conclusion, Ayo got signed, travelled for the shoot in L.A and became a super model.

     I'm sorry to have bored you with a story like this but then, it's just a way of proving that often times, REJECTION IS A REDIRECTION.

     This means that when you keep failing at something, it is a sign you are not supposed to tread that way which in other words mean that you should try something else.

     So to be very honest most of people have problems like this and I personally know someone who was rejected at something then tried something else relating to the same thing then boom it was worth trying but at first it was not easy accepting to the fact that he was rejected. Soo many stories like Sylvester Stallone, Denzel Washington, Dwayne Johnson etc even the creator of whatsapp was rejected by Yahoo and Facebook when he applied for a job then later tried something else relating to it we all know how WhatsApp is now and was later sold to the owner of facebook.

     Funny how life is as one straight road doesn't lead to a destination; a different path does.

     Let's just hope we all have the patience to overcome our struggles and kindly share this till it reaches the person who needs it.

Thanks for taking your time to read through I hope you like it.

YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT THEY THINK YOU ARE.

     So over the years (at least for the years I have been conscious of my existence), it has always been that the society decides to take us i.e who we are for what we look like on the outside.
     Today, I won't even be talking character wise as that thing seems to be old and annoying to me already.
      I will be talking on how people decide to categorize others just because of how they are dressed and now, it's way more than morals as I'm talking about the 'three stripes girls and boys' who I would rather say discriminate (if that is even right) against others who do not wear three stripes but instead, settle for less because they simply can't afford that life.
      Now it happens that it is this same set of people that talk on social media about how you should be yourself and no one else because you are good just the way you are blah blah blah and hell yeah, you are actually good the way you are irrespective of how you look or where you come from so please, you had rather not mind them.
     Just six months ago when I used to do my internship at a media organisation, thinking of how many interns worked there, we were about seven to eight in number and I would say that the people I met there really shaped me into what I am at the moment being that we all came from different places having our mindset on different things too. To cut the whole story short, on a particular day, it happened that one lady stepped on another who claims to be a model and even after saying sorry like a thousand times to her, she got up like "eyes must be paining this one and what type of shoe is this now that you used to step on me. If it is that you are wearing designer now I won't say anything ..."  Please does that even sound right ? 😑😑😑😑😑
     I'm very well sure this typical example is something you probably can relate to in a way not necessarily having that you are like one of the two girls but instead you are like me who was present at the scenario.
     A big thank you to our model for making the other girl keep to herself all through and making me start to do all the work I was running away from.
Without further explanation, it is obvious the effect of "discriminating" against one another just because of the how the other person is dressed and thinking we are the best because we wear everything designer.
It is best that we all begin to love and accept each other as it is only then we all can achieve great things together to make the other better. (There is a price)
    Thanks for your time and please be sure to tell a brother/sister.
 Mobola ❤

     Btw I feel so fly for the rhymes 😆😆😆
Bye !

INTRODUCTION 🎈

Hey there ! A very big thank you for taking your time to visit here. I mean, of all things you could possibly be doing right now, you took time to give this a check and for that, I really appreciate you.
So this is actually supposed to be for school purpose but the semester is over already and I'm just switching this for my personal use.
Sorry for the unwanted gists (I'm just a talkative)
Now, I have decided to not make this be about one subject precisely and this means that I would be posting a lot of different things as there's a whole lot to tell you guys (for real I've been saying crap) but then it means a whole lot to me that you came visiting.
Thanks once again lovelies ❤

  Mobola ❤